Committment Questions

Okay...so as you can see, I have lots on my mind because I just wrote the "welcome to my blog" blog. But anyway, I think a lot when I am by myself and lately I have been spending oodles of quality time with me, myself and I. So a couple hours ago, I was thinking about some things, and commitment just happened to be one of them. I have recently gained some pretty cool guy friends. Although we all do very innocent, light flirting with one another, there is no romantic feeling involved. Basically, we just chat, like new friends do. But it's funny because I think this chatting sometimes makes me wish I was talking to someone who understood me. Although, I know I am nowhere near ready to be in a committed relationship with the person I'm going to marry, the desire to know who it is and when I will meet them still comes and goes. So tonight I was asking myself, "what would I do if God sent that person to me now?" And to honestly answer that question, I had no idea. My first guess is probably mess it up. The relationship with the person that you will marry is most definitely the most important relationship you will ever have with someone of the opposite sex. In order to set a good path for the type of marriage relationship you want, good choices have to be made from the beginning. In past relationships, I have made and allowed bad choices to be made, some which detrimentally affected the relationship. I don't want this to happen with the man that God will send for me to marry. So therefore, instead of worrying about having someone who understands me now, I will work on my decision making and other things that could be better so that I am as amazing as I can possibly be when the time comes for that very special man to come into my life. And hopefully, he and I will be able to make decisions that God would be pleased with and it will reflect in our relationship. So to all my single friends out there who wish they were with someone or are hoping for a relationship, would you truly be ready for one if God sent that right person today? Is there anything you can work on to better prepare yourself? What are you doing to better prepare yourself? Think about these things and hopefully you can find something to intentionally work on to help you pass the time a little faster. Toodles! :)